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Though this day is celebrated in
various ways in different parts of India, it essentially entails
sisters applying a tilak of roli (vermilion), kesar (saffron)
and rice on their brother's forehead as a mark of their love and
protection. They also pray for his prosperity, well being and
good luck.
In Uttar Pradesh, an aab is made by twisting flax into a
circular shape. It is dotted with roli, and batashas (a kind of
sweet) are placed in the centre. There are two aabs for each
brother. The story of Bhai Dooj is narrated as the sister
applies a tilak of roli and rice to her brother's forehead. An
aarti is then performed for the brother.
In Bengal, this occasion is called Bhai fota. Sisters fast all
morning till the ritual is completed. The tilak is made of ghee,
sandalwood paste and kaajal. Diyas and incense sticks are an
integral part of the ceremony. An aarti is also performed. The
elder of the brother and sister gives the younger one rice and
durba, a type of grass. Rice is a symbol of plenty and the
evergreen durba is symbolic of longevity. Kheer and coconut
laddoos are a must-eat.
In Bihar, believe it or not, sisters start the occasion by
heaping the choicest of curses on their brothers! Having done
that, they prick their own tongues as punishment, with a thorny,
wild fruit and ask for their brothers' forgiveness for the
curses, and also for past mistakes. They then bless them and
pray for their welfare. The brothers swallow a few grains of
bajri with water, before tasting yummy sweets from their
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